Sunday, September 7, 2008

满足

有些人在面对困难的时候选择勇于面对; 有些人却在危机重重的时候找机会逃避。

在克服困难的时候,没有几个人是可以以十全十美的计谋去完成的。 因为很多的人都被现实蒙住了本来原有的智慧。

智慧, 是很多人都在追求的一样宝物。 它,不仅使人富有,幸福,还有美满; 它严重地促使一个人放下所有珍贵的东西, 并且朝着一个永恒的方向走去。

什么是永恒? 在盲目地追求钱财,爱情,事业,名气的时候,我已经开始忘记了什么才是真正的,实实在在的,千真万确的东西。 我不知不觉把这些奇怪的东西变成了生命里的阻扰。 它们每天都在床边重复地跟我说提醒我“你以后赚很多钱后记得存钱买房子,车子,保险,或者开一间餐厅,然后去享受你的人生。。。”

有时候,它们又会对我说 “不要忘了守住你的男友,不要让别人拐走了,他是你以后要依靠的对像。。。你看,那个曾经是人家第三者的女生又跟他讲话了。”

有很多时候,它们一直提醒我 “今天一定要读书啦,一定要考到比别人好,一定要让别人对你刮目相看。。”

我每天都被这些不切实际的怪物困扰着。 原来这些就是使我没有办法睡好的原因。 要如何去克服困难? 去面对这些烦事?

没错, 往好的方向想是正确的。

但是好的想法不能24小时一直跟着你,你也不可能直接把不好的记忆删除,毕竟印象是深刻的东西。

一个人只有一双手,能捉住多少样东西?放下钱财追求爱情?还是放下爱情追求事业?无论如何,都满足不到心中的欲望,不是吗?

欲望,是个奸诈的幕后黑手。

是啊。。不管怎样都会胡思乱想都会不满足。

数数下,最能持久在身边的是什么?好像不是钱。。又好像不是爱情。。更不像是名气。。 因为钱会进也会出,爱情会来也会走,名气也会渐渐消失。 我不可能成为全部的奴隶,那样很累,很吃不消,到最后被背叛的还不是自己。

要克服这些欲望的使者,我没有很高的智慧,我也没有具体的条件。我唯一能做的事情,只有对每一事抱着满足的心情。

对,只有满足的心情我才不会为明天烦恼。

如果我满足了,我就不会花很多时间上网,我就有时间读书。
如果我满足每一天,就会感谢身边每个人,更不会去猜疑和责怪别人。我更不用担心别人去抢走自己爱的人,只要满足就可以克服一切。

持着满足的心情,一点点就是大欢喜。

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

你不是说你大智若愚吗? 哈哈哈。。。。

凡人要转凡入圣谈何容易, 所以时时刻刻都要提醒自己啊!

要做到真智慧显现更是难,除非贪嗔痴真的断除。 人们往往把真的当假,把假的当真做。 所以颠倒!

修行就是要借假修真,还我本来面目!世间的名闻利养全都是短暂的,但是人类的无明导致了争夺的出现。 这些只是点缀不重要啊。

万般带不去,唯有业随身 。 来人间短短几年,却不懂得珍惜无边福田不会种,万种恶因一种下!

所以我们时时刻刻要忏悔,反省。 不然五浊恶世里就真的痛苦。

所以每天要有感恩的心。。。。。
感恩伤害我们的敌人,因为它我们得忍辱波罗蜜。
感恩疼爱我们的人,因为它我们更能够把大爱散播人间。
感恩所有的众生因为他们我们修行才有帮助。
感恩对我们无理的批评因为它消我们的业障增长我们忏悔心。
感恩所有好与坏因为这样我们更能够了悟无常。

~~~ 共勉~~~~

kristy said...

oh, 我除了有大智之外也是有小愚的wat. 你不要讲我啦你自己也不是一样有时也会颠倒。但是你讲的句句实话真是没有得顶,感谢你的提醒!真的!!有你这个双子座的朋友真是又悲又喜,哈哈哈哈。。

Anonymous said...

我没说我没颠倒!!!
我也没说我很厉害和大智啊,都在用别人的话而已。

Samantha Ang said...

sometimes you can't have everything at a same time. you might have to give up some, to gain another thins u want. i used to live in a life that not belongs to me, maybe it seems a lil' upset, but yes it is. i used to occupy myself with frens, in the end i find that its lk forcing myself into things that doesn't suit me. i feel tired and i don have enough time for myself in the end. Each of us has diff preference. There's saying 'live life to the fullest', there are many views of it. As for 'life', some people think of the past, present or dream of future. And 'fullest', some people think that a stable life is the most wonderful one as God has present them a life without worry. Some people might want to live in a big house, and obviously not satisfy with their present life. All depend on u, wat you want, why you want and how you want them to be yours. feel thankful, to receive love from family, frens. everyone is not useless, who knows u learn something everyday unknowingly? to have big dream is good, but dream for more, fall even more right?

kristy said...

like this one, 'wat u want','y u want' and 'how u want them to be urs'.

i feel so guilty to myself when i see this 'live life to the fullest' as i've been wasting my life doing neither big nor extraordinary, ha..

but i'm so lucky that i've met plenty of ngam-keng frens during my 20++ age, to some are so straight forward but having very kind heart, some are so funny and quite simulating my style, haha..

yea, be grateful!

fattyjo said...

how I wish I can looks at things from different perspective like you :)

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